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Using Lingerie to Spice It Up in the Bedroom!

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Women love lingerie… and men love their women to be WEARING lingerie. Both sides win. Women get to feel sexy, like a goddess… and men get to LOOK at their women like a goddess. Who doesn’t want that!? :)

There are so many types of lingerie to choose from… sweet, innocent, almost angelic… to bolder, even naughty.

Which type is for you?

What if I said… all of it?

First things first… don’t be afraid to step a little out of your comfort zone. A lady who is shy, quiet and meek on the outside can turn into a naughty mistress in the bedroom! Trying new things and new styles of lingerie can be just the thing to spice up a romantic encounter… whether your relationship is still new, or maybe you’ve been together for years. Sex between people who love each other is a beautiful thing… don’t be afraid to get a little adventurous. Men crave that adventure and fantasy… and you can be his fantasy woman, just by changing a few things you wear in the bedroom.

Teddies, baby dolls and bustiers are always a hit. They are always sexy, and always fashionable. Anything with garters is especially pleasing, and don’t forget to add the thigh-hi’s. If you’ve never experimented with these before, I highly recommend them. It makes you feel sexy underneath, and if you give your guy a hint of “what you’re wearing” … it will drive him crazy all day, thinking about seeing you wearing it tonight! If you doubt what I’m saying… just try it! ;)

When shopping for thigh-hi’s, if you plan to use them with garters, I recommend buying the ones that are especially for use with them. Sometimes the elastic-banded ones don’t come out looking the way we like and make a tight roll across the top. Thigh-hi’s that are made for wearing with garters are not tight on the leg (the garters keep them up) and will present a more attractive appearance.

There are many materials and fabrics. Leather (pretty pricey but worth it), vinyl, fishnet, lace, satin. It all works!

Accessories are always good so don’t underestimate them. Don’t forget to add things like feathers and edible massage oils. These really add a touch of hotness that both of you will enjoy! Lacy gloves… jewelry… heels… go all out and he will go crazy with desire for you!

Even if you feel out of your element… you may even feel a little strange, because it feels so unlike you… but give it a try. Be his fantasy girl. Even if you feel like your body type isn’t perfect, or if you wonder what he would want… you might be pleasantly surprised. Men just love sexy. Period! And when their woman is being sexy just for them, that’s even better!

One thing I would like to mention here… a woman who FEELS sexy… IS sexy. It’s a confidence thing. If you’re strutting around all day wearing something super sexy underneath, it makes you feel sexy and special. Which would make you feel more like a vibrant sexy woman… a lacy black bra and matching lace panties… or granny panties? ;)

A woman who feels sexy on the inside can’t help but exude it on the outside to others. People notice. It increases her sense of self, her femininity… her sexuality. It’s a way we can celebrate being the sexy woman that we are. Every woman has sex appeal… sometimes she just doesn’t know how to let it out. Wearing a little sexy something underneath can help bring it out, in a subtle but sure way.

So go ahead… have fun with it! Try something a little out of the ordinary and feel like a goddess! Make a sexy, romantic memory that both of you will never forget. :)



Brown Eyed Girls Gotta Blog! :D

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206208_402553983137972_2018772436_n   Click here for my streaming playlist – listen while you read!

    or  just “Pop Out” my below player.  Great music from the 60’s through today! :)

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HEY and welcome to this little blog of mine!  Ok, this is your last chance.  Are you *sure* you want to venture on in? hehee  Just kidding.  It’s safe.  Mostly. *rubs hands together with glee* LOL!!  :)  There is ALL KINDS of stuff in here… from recipes to poetry, fun stuff to animal activism… whatever I’m in the mood to post, pretty much! 

So… that was your last chance.  Now you’re hooked ;)  you HAVE to look around. :D

 ALSO… I love to write poetry… if that’s an interest of yours,  please feel free to give my poetry a read. I have a lot :) and also a few e-books that I have written, on Scribd, which you can access at this link: http://www.scribd.com/AmyMeridethSwanson   The first one is a collection of my various poetry… about love, loss, life, and all the in-between.  The name of it is “Soul Expressions… Poetry for Thought.” The artwork on the cover is an original design, done by me.  The second one, and the one closest to my heart, is “Reflections of Nature… A Selection of Peaceful Poetry for Tranquil Moments” and it’s chock full of haiku, tanka, choka and free verse poetry.

OK… let’s get started!!  I hope you enjoy my blog!  Grab a cup of coffee (__)D or tea… or milk… whatever your choice… and come on in!!  :)

*hugs*

Amy

Beautiful Day!

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I love those kinds of days – don’t you?  As I sit here, listening to my beloved 80’s music… windows wide open so that AWESOME spring breeze can blow right in… yummy cup of home-made cappucino in my favorite coffee cup and thinking of planting my sunflowers later… I just can’t help but think what a gift it is… a real, precious gift… this gift of life we’ve been given.


Gorgeous Day! Pic taken by me

Gorgeous Day! Pic taken by me

Sure… sometimes, life throws a real kicker our way.  There’s no denying that!  But Jesus spoke some words in the bible that come to my mind during those dark moments, and I have had my share.  “This too shall pass.”  He didn’t mean it necessarily in the same context… but it is an answer that helps me and maybe will help you too, if you’re going through one of those dark times… if the storm clouds in life are getting in the way of the sunlight you are desperately looking for.  Never make a permanent or lasting decision… of any sort… based on a temporary situation.  Because this too shall pass.  Sometimes you just have to grit your teeth… turn on your favorite song loud enough to drown out the noise around you… and wait it out. Much like waiting for the flu to leave.  It seems like it takes forever… but one day… it leaves.  After all the achey, yucky, bad feelings, medicines, and high fevers… when you least expect it… suddenly, you start to feel normal again…  one morning you wake up… and you just feel like the fog has finally lifted.  You don’t know exactly when, and couldn’t say the time of day or night it happened… you just know that it did.

And then… life is even sweeter than it ever seemed before.  Because… in spite of the hardship…  sadness… tears…. the sun still shines.  The flowers still bloom.  That cute little squirrel still scampers across your electric lines.  Life still happens.

And therein, is the beauty.  The gift.  :)


You’ll have to forgive me for waxing a bit philosophical today – but hey, I’m a poet!  It’s just what we do. ;) hehe


Here’s hoping you have a beautiful and sunshiney day!  Let the wind blow and breathe in deeply… savor every moment.

Cherish the ordinary days – because those are the truly extraordinary days.  *smile*